Same-sex couples expecting

marriage license rejection

 

Cara Sapida, nbc-2.com on the Web, February 14, 2007

 

LEE COUNTY, Feb. 13 -- As the GOP fights for a constitutional amendment banning gay marriage, gay couples are fighting back.  A dozen local couples plan to arrive at the county clerk's office with paperwork in hand.  But unlike the other couples in line, they know they'll walk away empty handed.

Forget flowers and chocolate on valentines, some same-sex couples say they simply want social security benefits and tax breaks.

One Lee County couple has been fighting for equal rights for 35 years -- a long time to wait for a ring.  But after 35 years, Steve Smith and Anthony Cerullo still aren't married.

If you ask them, they will tell you they act like a married couple and even fight like a married couple.  But they aren't given the same rights as a married couple.

"We're just like you, just like you.  We want to be accepted as a couple, with the benefits we're entitled to.  We worked all our lives.  I'm entitled to his social security and he's entitled to mine," said Cerullo.

On Wednesday, they will apply for a marriage license for the fourth time and they say for the fourth time, they will be rejected.

"We have to follow the laws of the state of Florida," said Lee County Clerk Sharon Smith.

According to the Florida marriage statute, only a man and a woman can obtain a marriage license.

"We will let them fill out the application.  Once they show us the ID we show them the Florida statute -- it ends there," said Smith.

While the application process may end, the fight continues.

For many same-sex couples, filing for marriage is symbolic.  They are well aware the state does not allow gay marriage licenses and the city has no say.

But other states have changed their laws and even their terminology.  For example, in some states the phrase "bride and groom'' has been changed to "first applicant and second applicant" and "husband and wife'' has been changed to "spouse for life."

 

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