In Favor of Same-Sex Marriage

 

NJ Law Journal from BlueJersey.net March 13, 2006

 

"History should be considered a guide, not a harness, to recognition of constitutional rights, and patterns of the past cannot justify contemporary violations of constitutional guarantees.

- Judge Collester's dissent in Lewis v. Harris

On Feb. 15, the New Jersey Supreme Court heard oral argument in Lewis v. Harris, a case that will decide whether same-sex couples have a right to marry under the New Jersey Constitution.  From the inception of Lewis v. Harris almost four years ago, we have visited the subject of gay marriage several times.  In two editorials titled Same-Sex Unions and Who Shall Decide? [169 N.J.L.J. 1344, Sept. 30, 2002], we expressed our strong support for "same-sex state-licensed union of gay couples with all the rights and obligations the state confers upon heterosexual couples who are married."  While we endorsed same-sex unions, we were silent about the state denominating the union a "marriage."  However, after carefully considering the arguments made before the Court, we end our silence.  We endorse the right of people of the same sex to marry and urge the Court to declare that such a right is rooted in our state constitution.

We are aware that the Legislature attempted to deal with some of the concerns of same-sex couples through the passage of the Domestic Partnership Act.  However, in an amicus brief to the Court in Lewis, the State Bar Association commented that existing law falls far short of providing equality in areas that heterosexual couples take for granted.  According to the State Bar's brief, when domestic partners have their relationships sanctioned by the state, they cannot automatically take each other's name.  The law does not explain each partner's rights and obligations with respect to children, employee benefits, or estate planning.  They do not receive the same tax or survivor benefits that married couples enjoy.  The law treats domestic partners in a failed relationship very differently from heterosexual couples on issues ranging from alimony, to child support, to visitation rights, to the equitable distribution of assets.  Even in death, as one of the plaintiffs sadly learned, the law does not recognize the rights of a domestic partner to carry out her partner's wish to have her body donated to science to aid in finding a cure for the disease that took her life.

Although, the Legislature's progressive Domestic Partnership Act may have addressed some of the concerns of same gender couples, it essentially created a "separate, but not equal" status for domestic partners that not only failed to provide for equality of rights, but also failed to provide many same-sex couples with what they truly seek:  dignity.  As one of the justices pointed out, "[The plaintiffs] want the respect and respectability of marriage and the stature and status of marriage."  This lack of equality is not only unfair, it is unconstitutional.

In Lewis, the state offered three bases for its position:  the historical definition of marriage, the separation of powers, and the original intent of the framers.  None of these arguments is persuasive.  The state's reliance on the historical definition of marriage as being between a man and a woman fails in our view because it seeks to use past discrimination to justify continuing the practice.  The fact is that society no longer subscribes to the so-called "traditional" view of marriage, which derives from a time when wives were deemed chattel, when they could not own property in their name, and when they could not be raped by their husbands.  None of these "traditional" views of marriage remain part of our jurisprudence.

Each time our American society has pondered extending fundamental rights -- from emancipation, to women's suffrage, to Civil Rights, to interracial marriage, to gay and lesbian adoption -- a vocal majority has feared that the extension of our basic rights to the minority would alter the American way of life.  Those fears have always proved unfounded, even if the majority was not always ready to immediately accept the change.

For the same reasons, we are not persuaded by the State's "original intent" argument.  At the oral argument, the State argued that same-sex marriages could not have been enshrined in the 1947 Constitution because it "was a foreign concept to the founders of the Constitution."  This issue was convincingly addressed in Judge Collester's dissent in the Appellate Division, where he debunked the argument that same-sex couples have no right to marry because the framers could not have envisioned any type of marriage other than as between heterosexual couples.  His opinion explored the evolution of constitutional doctrine into areas that were unimaginable in the past.  Indeed, as his dissenting opinion explained, the concept of marriage itself is an "evolving paradigm" that has radically changed over time.  Whatever the framers of our State Constitution may have thought of marriage at the time is quite different in many respects from the way law and society treat marriage now.  We agree with Judge Collester that present-day discrimination cannot be justified by relying upon the moral standards of the past.

Finally, the separation of powers argument is equally unpersuasive.  The courts are constitutionally required to protect citizens from laws that unreasonably restrain fundamental rights.  Rights that were unavailable to many minorities at the start of the last century are now a part of the basic framework of who we are as a society.  History is replete with examples of traditions, long cherished, which, when they became indefensible, fell.  Sometimes a court wielded the ax; sometimes the Legislature.  No one today would rightly question whether African-American children should be able to go to the same public schools as white children, but it took a decision from a unanimous U.S. Supreme Court to lead the way.  Fifty years from now, our great grandchildren, having grown up in a world where same-sex marriage is a way of life, will read their handheld, electronic history "books" and wonder what all of the fuss was about.

A ruling in favor of the plaintiffs in this case will not signal the unwarranted usurpation of the legislative function by an "activist" court.  Rather, it would serve as a text-book example of the Court doing what it is constitutionally compelled to do -- protect the rights of the minority where the Legislature has failed to do so.

In addition to the substantial legal support for same-sex marriage, there is no satisfactory counterpoint to the humaneness of permitting those of the same gender who want the dignity of being recognized by the community as "married" to have that dignity.  If same-sex couples are willing to accept the substance of marriage, they are entitled to its form.  As Judge Collester stated so plainly and eloquently, the right to marry is "effectively meaningless unless it includes the right to marry a person of one's own choice."  After careful consideration, we believe the State Constitution prohibits the state from denying the fundamental right to marry to same-sex couples and we encourage the Court to say so.

 

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