Gay students describe harassment at school

Educators hear their stories during a conference

at Drake University.

 

By DANA BOONE,DesMoinesRegister.com from the Web, February 22, 2006

 

Des Moines, Iowa -- Emily Frerichs of Orange City agonized about telling her classmates last year that she is gay.  Once she did, she said her real agony began, and the carefree high school days she had known ended.

Her closest friends shunned her.  Her car was vandalized.  Anonymous e-mail messages warned her that she was going to hell, she said.

"Everyday life had become a battlefield," the 17-year-old senior at MOC-Floyd Valley High School told a Drake University conference Tuesday.

"I was no longer known as Emily, the girl who loved to sing, act, make jokes and play guitar," she said.  "Students and teachers and faculty chose to view me as kid with some sort of sickness who needed to be cured."

Gary Richardson, superintendent at MOC-Floyd Valley, has declined to discuss Frerichs' allegations other than to say his district has a policy that protects all students from harassment and has never had a problem warranting specific protection based on sexual orientation.

Frerichs and three other students Tuesday told stories of harassment to 500 educators and others at Drake University who attended the Governor's Conference on LGBT Youth, hosted by Gov. Tom Vilsack, Lt. Gov. Sally Pederson and the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Youth in Iowa Schools Task Force.

Advocates urged state legislation to prohibit the harassment and bullying of gay and lesbian youth.  They said too few Iowa school districts -- 77 out of 367 during the 2004-2005 school year -- have anti-discrimination policies that include sexual orientation.

Kevin Jennings , executive director the Gay Lesbian Straight Education Network, said school policies must specifically afford protection against bullying to gay and lesbian youth.

"You can say, 'Oh, we shouldn't bully anyone and let's have a policy that says that,' " he said.  "But if you don't enumerate categories like sexual orientation and race and religion, it won't work as well."

Research shows most teachers believe an anti-harassment policy that includes sexual orientation is the top thing school districts can do to lessen or prevent harassment and violence, he said.

 

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