Ads promote net safety, battle bullying

Middlesex County reaches out to youth

 

By KEN SERRANO, Home News Tribune Online June 22, 2005

 

 

 

JOE McLAUGHLIN /Staff photographer

Samantha Hahn, the National American Miss Teen for 2005, tapes an anti-bullying message for the Middlesex County Prosecutor's Office yesterday at Lord Stirling School in New Brunswick.  Behind the camera, at left are Jessie Ruvo, and, center, Brett Miler, who are Comcast producers.

 

 

 

JOE McLAUGHLIN/Staff photographer

Prosecutor's Office investigators Laura Callahan, left, and Melissa Terpanick stand yesterday with children at Lord Stirling School during taping of an anti-bullying message.

MIDDLESEX COUNTY — Samantha Hahn has come a long way since a fellow middle-school pupil hurled loose pieces of sharp scrap metal in her face during a shop class, sending her to the hospital.

It was one of a string of bullying incidents she said she experienced in the sixth and seventh grades.  It all started with a rumor, she said.

Now Hahn is the National American Miss Teen for 2005.  But she has not forgotten the more than yearlong campaign of threats and physical abuse she endured.

The Menlo Park Terrace 20-year-old is speaking out against bullying, trying to reach children dealing with taunts and assaults.

"Name calling can quickly turn into physical abuse and threats," she said yesterday.

With her tiara neatly in place, her almost luminous smile, and students from the Lord Stirling Community School in New Brunswick playing in the background, Hahn spoke into a video camera as part of a new commercial sponsored by the Middlesex Out-Reach and Education unit, known as MORE, in the Middlesex County Prosecutor's Office.

"A bully is someone who disrespects you just for being you," Hahn said.

The commercial will be aired on MTV through Comcast and Cablevision throughout September, aimed at 280,000 households in Middlesex County.  Another commercial on Internet safety, also filmed at the school yesterday, will run on ESPN2, ABC Family, TLC and HGTV throughout July.

Aside from Hahn and some of the Lord Stirling pupils, investigators Laura Callahan and Melissa Terpanick of the Prosecutor's Office were also in the anti-bullying commercial.  Freeholder Christopher Rafano also took part in filming yesterday.

The Internet-safety commercial featured New Brunswick patrolmen Gary Yurkovic and Jamal James and Sgt. Andrea Craparotta and Agent Suzanne Kowalski of the Prosecutor's Office.

The commercials follow another from last year that focused on diversity and tolerance in Middlesex County, sponsored by the MORE unit, county freeholders and the Middlesex County Cultural and Heritage Commission.  The aim was to reach children during commercial breaks from shows such as "SpongeBob SquarePants."

The success of last year's commercial led to the expansion of the program and more money, said Craparotta of the MORE unit.

Last year, her office used $2,500 in grant money for the commercial.  This year, it is spending $6,000 on the two segments, increasing air time and exposure.

Craparotta said the Internet-safety commercial, also filmed at the school yesterday, is geared more for parents.  Airing it on ESPN2 is an attempt to capture the attention of fathers, she said.

"It's the best way to get the message out to the male population," she said.

Craparotta said Hahn was approached for the commercial because of the timeliness of her anti-bullying message.

Aside from representing National American Miss Teen — she won the title in Anaheim, Calif. in November — Hahn is also New Jersey's anti-bullying advocate, a volunteer post with the state Division of Criminal Justice's Office of Bias Crime and Community Relations.

She spoke at a "cyberbullying" conference held by the division in May.

Hahn, a 2003 graduate of Bishop George Ahr High School in Edison and a student at Circle in the Square Theatre School in New York City, said Internet death threats were part of the bullying she endured in the sixth and seventh grades.  She declined when asked to identify the Middlesex County school where the abuse took place.

Her national title and the tiara and banner she wears help draw children's interest when she speaks at schools, she said.  Hahn was greeted with the waves and surprised smiles of Lord Stirling pupils in the hallways yesterday.

"I have kids sharing their own experiences with me," she said.  "Just that they can open up and speak about the subject — if one kid stands up and shares personal experiences — I know I've done my job."

Matt Rowack, 13, a seventh-grader at Lord Stirling, had a brief speaking role in the anti-bullying commercial along with fifth-graders Lorenz Allain and Nyasia Dumas.  Rowack said children resist telling an adult about bullying episodes because they fear retribution and embarrassment.

"It's a little babyish to tell an adult.  It's hard," he said, a problem the commercial could solve for some young viewers in Middlesex County.  "It'll be easier for them to talk to their parents if they see that other kids have the same problem."

Children and parents with concerns about bullying can call 877-NOBULLY (877) 662-8559.

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